Open-Minded Thinking in Kids

When You Let Go of “Perfect,” You Find Something Even Better

We’ve all been there: striving to create the perfect presentation, dish, or painting. There is a peculiar pressure associated with the ambition of perfection, a pressure that can be draining emotionally and mentally. It is a trap that confines us into an illusion of a flawless state, in doing so, we often discount our authentic selves and unique qualities.

For the parents, teachers, and caregivers reading this, we understand your quest for providing the best possible environment for your children. In fact, author Kari Layton is a grandmother and former teacher who’s passionate about instilling critical thinking and emotional intelligence in young minds through her children’s books. Her characters often navigate the tricky waters of perfection and emerge with profound insights.

The Perfection Dilemma

Perfection is an alluring concept. It promises complete satisfaction and acceptance, but what many fail to realize is that it usually comes at a cost. Perfection is rigid, leaving no room for creative expression, diversity, or even the simple joy of making mistakes and learning from them. Pursuing perfection, we often find ourselves lost in a monotone world devoid of variation, much like Crabby Crayon in Layton’s book, Crabby Crayon: And the Too Blue Day.

A Lesson from a Blue Crayon

Crabby Crayon, feeling overlooked and emotionally heavy, decides to color the entire world blue. He believes that this is the key to happiness and acceptance. However, he soon realizes that striving for a world that is entirely one color—his color—has led to a monochromatic and flat world, devoid of diversity and excitement. This realization teaches him the importance of collaboration and diversity, leading to a vibrant world of various colors. In the end, Crabby finds himself happy not because everything is blue, but because he’s part of a bigger, diverse, and beautiful picture. Every color matters, and perfection isn’t just one color—it’s a palette of hues.

In Search of Truth To Find Something Even Better

Perfection is often linked to a rigid definition, much like Crabby Crayon’s fundamentalist view of blue in Crabby Crayon and The Truth About Blue. However, just like blue, perfection isn’t just one exact thing. It can be a spectrum of beautiful hues, each adding their unique touch to the overall masterpiece.

Crabby’s journey in this book teaches us a valuable lesson: to embrace the diversity within the sameness, to appreciate the rich and vibrant world devoid of monochromatic rigidity, and to discover that the truth is more significant, enriching, and exquisite than a single perfect hue or a confined definition.

The Balance of Being

While it’s beneficial to strive for excellence, it’s also crucial to maintain balance, authenticity, and grace in the process. Embrace the imperfections as they make you unique, respect the diversity as it beautifies the world, and nourish the authenticity as it nurtures real connections. We encourage you to find joy, embrace your authenticity, and let go of the idea of perfect, because when we do, trust us, we find something much better. Kari Layton’s books beautifully illustrate these concepts in a child-friendly language that makes for a memorable and meaningful read.

Ready to introduce your child to stories that inspire emotional growth, creative thinking, and a deeper appreciation of diversity? Explore Kari Layton’s books and bring home Crabby Crayon and the Too Blue Day or Crabby Crayon and The Truth About Blue today. Order now and start a colorful conversation with your child.